There are many signs of a cheating husband or wife; most of them are same for men as well as women. Here are some ways to tell if your spouse is having an affair:
Loss of interest in you.
They lose interest in sexual intercourse [you stop having sex, or have sex less often]
They want to try new positions and their sexual behavior changes.
Sex does not feel intimate anymore and it doesn’t last long.
They won’t touch, kiss or hold you as much and also they don’t say “I LOVE YOU” that often
Suspicious statements and reactions.
They accidently call you another name.
They have mood and attitude swings.
Special interest in appearance and personal grooming.
Unexplained time away.
They suddenly have to go somewhere [like the store, gym, etc.]. That may be the sign that they are meeting him or her.
They often call home to tell that they will be home late.
They are strangely inaccessible or unreachable at times.
Unusual telephone behavior.
If you ask to meet them outside their workplace, they prefer not to [ a lot of affairs start in office].
They hang up the phone if you come close, they do not let anyone else answer the phone.
There are unexplained phone numbers on the cell phone or home phone bills
There are unusual incoming, missed or outgoing calls to their phone.
Cheating husbands will want to be with their ‘guy friends’ more often. For example he would say “the guys and I are going to watch the football game” If you want to go with them they make excuses.
They use more gas to their vehicle, unexplained mileage.
You see receipts of items you’ve never seen.
There are unexplained charges on credit card bills.
Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID and all incoming emails.
He insists the child seat, toys, etc. are kept out of his car.
Purposely picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.
The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.
Spouse’s co – workers are uncomfortable in your presence.
You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.
Last but not least your intuition [ gut feeling] tells you that something is not right.
Always remember to verify before you confront. And note that many of these could also be a sign of something else. |
